Did You Always Know What You Wanted Out of Life ?

( Yes I am posting loads today just so you know lol )

So have you always known what you wanted out of life? I mean lifestyle, Career, Home, Marriage etc. I can safely say that I did not always know what I wanted. 3 years ago it would have been as simple as a rockin night out with friends at a unreal club. I was happy if I had a good time and that pretty much summed up what I wanted.

That’s changed though, something clicked in me like a internal clock screaming advising me ” Hmmm excuse me …knock knock..time to grow up Louisa !! ..NOW !” and that was it the switch was flicked and what I wanted became very clear and precise to me.

Some people will not admit to what I want for fear of being considered shallow, I will admit to what I want out of my life because guess what …its my god damn life you know!?

I want to have this incredible home to live in like this

I want the place that people leave and are all like ” lucky cow she has landed in the most amazing home ! “I want the living room looking over the river valley and the room that has a treadmill in it that i can work out in. I want to have the most amazing walk in closet and a UNREAL bathroom ( steam shower included please? lol)  I want to be envied ..is that a bad thing?

I want to have the most amazing wedding…seriously nothing understated what so ever ! lol I want it big and fun and grand and I do want to spend a fortune on it and my damn dress ..anything wrong with that ???

I want to say I went on my honeymoon in the Maldives or Seychelles in the Indian ocean. Some where like this

why would I want to go to somewhere I have been before when I can go to a paradise that is just that a untouched paradise to celebrate whats going to be a pretty big damn moment in my life.

I want to be rich. There I said it out-loud …sort of lol ! But seriously I am not going to lie and say I want to be “comfortable” or live with “minimal worries” I am going to be truthful I want to be damn rich people. I am of the belief that if you do not vocalize what you want you are never going to get it. If you do not speak of it well come on is it ever going to happen?

I want the family with the big house and insane holidays. Anyone who says they never want this is not being truthful I believe that deep down everyone wants something I mentioned above in one form or another.

So be truthful with yourself, what do you want out of your life? What aspirations and dreams do you want to come into a real life fulfillment ? Say it out-loud , speak about it, vocalize it and write it down. The minute you do that is the minute it is no longer a dream but a very good potential reality for you