Rejection is one of those odd things that people have a variety of remedies for. It is one of those things that can tear a person apart from the heart outwards.
I have seen friends and family handle it in so many different ways from flippant to sheer anger and rage.
How do you handle rejection??
I myself am a odd ball when it comes to this. Normally I will just shut down completely pretend it never happened brush it off and move on. To me reacting to rejection is a sign of weakness and to me weakness is just not a good thing in any way shape or form. I do not want the ones that reject me to know it really bothered me all that much in the first place because in my eyes that shows them that they were sucessful in hurting me.
But on the very rare occasion I do show hurt when rejected and on a even slimmer occasion I will try and fight past that rejection and make the other realize that they in fact are wrong and have made a bad decsion.
Is it wrong of me to react that way even if it is a once in a blue moon occurance? No I do not think so just shows another aspect and dimesnion of who it is I really am.
Just so you know ..who I am is incrediable and amazing. Who I am is kind and good natured. Most importantly who I am is me and that makes me a sure bet in any situation