Seriously nothing pisses me off more then being ignored, not spoken to, not responded to or the silent treatment !
It honestly rattles my cage something chronic ! I am a communicator I need that form of communication and so when someone and others do not do the common act of communicating back then I get irritated to the max level.
I have no idea why it is like this with me but it is. I am pretty good at keeping my emotions and feelings and anger in check in almost all situations but when it comes to this little tiny issue I struggle not to scream about it.
I just have this belief that if someone makes the effort to speak to you then you simply make that effort back. I also believe that if you cannot be bothered to make that effort then you are way less a person for it. I know friends say to me if someone is that ignorant or rude then they are not worth your time anger or effort. That they are not worthy enough to know me as a person…but I cannot help it it gets my goat dammit.
So in the future people take the tip from me : If someone makes the effort to speak, email, text, call or write you a letter even make the effort to respond back its not hard and is just simple common manners dammit
that annoys me too …I have friends who do this. I forgive them readily though but sometimes I feel so bad for being ignored (mostly by email/sms)
On a side issue sadly the lady who is handraising the 2 remaining kittens I hope to bring home – hasn’t called me back since Saturday (I don’t know if no news is good news) and I can’t bring myself to ring for any more bad news.
I hope your friends treat you better – you write lovely cards.